Have you struggled in relationships? Have you ever thought you found “the one,” only to end up disappointed or heartbroken?
Change your relationship destiny
with Jane Peterson, PhD
Whether you're single and searching, or just starting something new, you might wonder:
Will this time be different? Will it finally last?
The truth is, building a healthy, loving relationship that lasts takes more than luck; it takes intention, self-awareness, and the right tools.
In my foundation course Are You on the Same Bus?, I will teach you how to:
✅ Break free from old patterns
✅ Identify the kind of partner who aligns with your values
✅ Build a solid foundation for a relationship that lasts
You can change your relationship destiny, and it starts with learning the skills you were never taught. Today!
Start building the love you deserve!
Great relationships
are made, not found!
So many of us dive into relationships full of hope, only to discover too late that we weren’t on the same page, or even headed in the same direction.
If this is you, you can get started with my foundation course:
Are You on the Same Bus?
Your Price $237! ($297 Value)
Plus you get a bonus course!
Relationship Myth-Busting
You get 20% off for purchasing today!
What If Love Isn’t About Finding “The One”…
But Finding Someone Who’ll Ride the Same Bus?
Maybe you and your last partner weren’t on the same bus.
Worse yet, maybe you could have been, but you didn’t know how to make it work.
What if you knew:
Who to invite onto your bus (and who not to)
How to tell early on if you’re headed in the same direction
How to stop wasting time on dead-end relationships
And how to build something real, something lasting
It’s Not About Luck
It’s About Clarity, Intention, and Direction
You put so much energy into finding someone.
Isn’t it time to put that same energy into making sure it’s the right someone?
Whether you're looking to fix patterns, understand what’s been missing, or finally build a love that lasts, this is your next step.
When you know the shape of your own soul, you can invite another in without losing yourself.
COURSE OVERVIEW
Who’s Driving Your Relationship Bus?
In this course, you’ll explore how your personal history, values, and direction that shapes the relationships you build, and learn how to steer them with intention. Using the metaphor of a relationship as a shared journey, you’ll gain insight into emotional drivers, compatibility, and purpose.
What You Will Learn:
Who’s Driving Your Bus?
Examine whether your childhood self or your adult self is in control. Discover how your family of origin may be unconsciously steering your relationships, and how to reclaim the wheel.Wants, Needs, and Deal-Breakers
Learn to distinguish between your wants and your needs. Identify your deal-breakers before you enter into a relationship to avoid costly misalignments down the road.Where’s Your Bus Headed?
Define your vision for the future and assess whether your potential partner is on the same route and if they share similar values. Avoid the painful realization of diverging paths after significant emotional investment.Two Drivers, One Bus
You will learn the difference between two individuals coming together with competing needs versus operating in a two-self system where the relationship can thrive. Understand how to navigate shared leadership in a relationship. Learn tools for collaboration and compromise when both partners have a hand on the wheel.Your Purpose as Partners
Reflect on the “why” behind your relationship. Love is essential, but it's not everything; define a shared purpose that sustains your connection beyond chemistry.
TESTIMONIAL
"This course helps me learn about biases I didn't know I have and how they are impacting my relationships. It gives me hope that I can learn and change." – Karla W.
Clarity about your own values, life-goals, and deal-breakers is the key that unlocks your access to healthy long-term relationships. You can’t fault your partner for “not making you happy” if you haven’t given them clear guidance on who you are.
This Course is For You If...
You’re done wasting time on relationships that go nowhere
You want more than chemistry, you want compatibility and commitment
You’re ready to stop guessing and start choosing love with intention
You crave the tools and confidence to build something that lasts
Imagine If You Could....
Stop second-guessing your choices
Know when to walk away, or when to go all in
Create a relationship where you both feel safe, seen, and on the same path
You can! And it starts right here.
TESTIMONIAL
"Jane's class is helping me to recognize where relationship myths have played in to my decisions of whether or not to pursue relationships. I am looking forward to my new awareness moving forward in my life." –Sara H.
INCLUDED WITH EACH COURSE
A welcome warm-up activity
Five engaging 20-30 minute video lessons with slides that you can watch and review at your own pace
Audio recordings and transcripts if you prefer to learn that way
Learning activities and worksheets with each lesson to make the skills and learning your own
Online forum of fellow participants and access to our team through the forum
Surprise bonuses as you complete the course and add up points
Continued access to course content to go back and review whenever you like
ABOUT JANE PETERSON, PhD
I’ve been married to the same man since 1981. Early in my long marriage, I realized that my husband and I lacked the skills to create a lasting loving relationship. It took me years of searching and trying all kinds of things to discover the skills that really matter to relationship success. I’ve cooked all that learning into a concentrated sauce for you so that you don’t have to wander through the maze of internet offerings to find what works. If you want to transform your relationship destiny, to maximize your opportunities for relationship success, you need tangible skills and workable tools.
I've been working with people for thirty years, and I have a broad ranging background in multiple relational disciplines from Process-Oriented Psychology to Systemic Constellation Work to a Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy with several stops in between. I’ve worked with and taught relational work internationally since 2001. My dissertation chair, W. Barnett Pearce, was one of the leaders in modeling and understanding what makes human communication work well.
Over the years, what I’ve discovered is that most couples are ill-equipped to handle the complex situations they face in intimate partnerships. I’ve taught these skills over and over to couples I’ve worked with and know that they work. If successful, our relationships are vital to our health, happiness, and well-being, and if we struggle, our intimate relationships can also cause us a lot of distress and suffering. I want you to succeed and thrive in your most important relationships. This is why I built this program for you.
OUR PROMISE
We believe in the value of our courses, and in your right to choose what truly works for you.
If you complete the Welcome Warm-Up and Lesson 1 within three weeks of purchase and find the course isn’t the right fit, we’ll refund your payment in full. No questions asked.
You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. You’ve spent enough time hoping for love to work out.
Now it’s time to get intentional, and build the love life you deserve!
If you know your own needs, values and boundaries, you have a much higher chance of creating a healthy loving relationship.
Human Systems Institute, Inc.
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